Child Life Month: Pediatric Pearls

As a child life specialist, I’m often asked by parents in my community and social circles how they can appropriately support their children through medical procedures. In the hospital setting, I’m frequently asked to partner with and educate physicians, mid-level practitioners, and nurses on evidence-based ways to care for children in the acute emergency environment. This post is intended to be a WIDE overview of the information I’ve learned, practiced, and mastered during my (nearly 6) years in Child Life. Full diclosure, although I have trained and worked in many areas, I have worked in pediatric emergency medicine for 4 full years now, and most of my tips and tricks tend to be tailored to that population. I have more detailed posts coming on many of these topics and can’t wait to share them with you!

  1. Involve the parents in their child’s care. This comforts the parent by giving them an active role in helping their child feel better, and it comforts the child to have their parent closely involved during invasive procedures. Most procedures can be performed while a child is being held and comforted by their parents: this includes routine examinations, testing including swabs, lab draws, and IV placement; and more invasive procedures like abscess drainage and laceration repairs. There aren’t any procedures or instances I have at the top of my head that would indicate a necessity for the child to be placed flat on the bed without being held or comforted by a parent. Some procedures do require a reclined or recumbent position, but the parent can still lie next to the patient, or rest the patient’s head in their lap. If procedural sedation is needed, consider allowing the patient to remain in a position of comfort during the induction phase of sedation and transfer them to a supine position immediately after. In research studies, children who are held upright rather than supine have less distress during the pre-procedural period, during the actual procedure, AND they return to baseline more quickly following the procedure. “ many, many children scream in panic and struggle fiercely as soon as they are placed in a supine position(ie, before any medical procedure has even started). Similarly, “children who are calm react with less intensity to negative stimulation than do children who are already upset for other reasons (Korner & Thoman 1972). Consequently, procedures require less time and fewer staff. The positions of comfort also lessen the chance that the procedure will fail”.

  2. There are VERY few situations where I would discourage parental presence at the bedside altogether. It is commonly misconceived that parents should not be allowed in the room during critical procedures such as rapid responses or code blue/resuscitation, but the research shows us parental inclusion is important during these times of crisis as well. “Studies show that the presence of parents does not have a negative impact on the performance of medical staff and that being with their child also results in less anxiety in the parents (Bauchner et al. 1991; Bauchner et al. 1996). “

  3. GET DOWN ON THEIR LEVEL! I cannot stress enough how important it is with a pediatric population, to squat or sit down to meet kids at their level. Imagine laying scared in a hospital bed with many large adults looming over you, looking down at you with unfamiliar equipment in their hands. Talk about scary!

  4. Children should always be offered choices, but only when the choices are realistic. Instead of asking a patient “can I put this on your finger?” try saying “I need to put this on your finger. Which one would you like me to use?”. Similarly, if taking medicine is not a choice, avoid asking questions like “are you ready to take your medicine” or “do you want to take some medicine"? Consider what your options would be when the child simply replies “no”. My favorite question instead? “ It is important for you to take this medicine to help you feel better. Do you want juice or a Popsicle when you’re done drinking it?”

  5. Children are far more comfortable with medical equipment if they’re given a chance to familiarize themselves with it first. Child Life Specialists are often available to provide in depth exploration and play with medical supplies including tools and equipment needed for use during IV starts, sutures, surgery, and more! (post coming on this soon!) Even without a child life specialist and the detailed resources and prep kits we have available, clinicians can provide their own basic preparation and familiarization. Simply showing a child a stethoscope and allowing them to touch it can ease their anxiety. Similarly, allowing a child to see and touch an IV catheter can clear up many misconceptions and fears of needles. Demonstrating procedures, even as simple as a physical exam, on a stuffed animal or even the child’s parent can encourage compliance in the toughest of patients.

  6. Language use: much of the language we use in the hospital is not accessible to our adult patients and caregivers, and is especially confusing to children. Avoid use of terms that may have double meanings or alternate definitions in the mind of a child. This includes “cat scan”, “stool sample” “IV”, and “dye”.

  7. Pain control: a topic I’m incredibly passionate about. Simply put, “They’re going to cry anyway” or “they’re too young to remember this” is NEVER a good excuse to deny a patient appropriate pain control. This topic will most definitely have it’s own detailed post coming soon so stay tuned for that!) In the meantime, a few fun facts: did you know that…..

    1. “A child’s experience during painful medical procedures likely plays a significant role in shaping that individual’s pain response to future events” (Young, MD, 2005)”?

    2. Infants, even as young as neonates, “who undergo procedures with inadequate analgesia have long-standing alterations in their response to and perceptions of painful experiences”? (Zempsky et al. 2004

    3. “Our youngest patients are at the highest risk of receiving inadequate analgesia” (Zempsky et al. 2004)

That’s all for today folks! Stay tuned for more information on communicating with pediatric patients, managing acute pediatric pain in the emergency department, positioning patients for procedures, and more! Hope this information is helpful and that you can use it in your practice, or even in your home!

Oh and one more thing - Happy Child Life month to all those heroic ladies and gents around the country fighting the good fight every single day. You are appreciated. You are valued. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!

Way Maker ; Miracle Worker; Promise Keeper

Y’all, anytime I start to doubt gods faithfulness and goodness, I want you to point me to this moment. January 26, 2020. In my favorite place on earth (hillsong phoenix) worshipping alongside Jenna and literally weeping hand in hand as Lisa Harper spoke truth and revival into our lives. To the outside world, it probably looked like two friends with broken and weary hearts coming together to worship - or maybe it even looked so ordinary that it didn’t look like anything at all.

To me, it looked like something else entirely. 

You see, leading up to my port placement last year I prayed a lot of prayers. I prayed for miraculous healing, for something radical to happen so that I didn’t have to get the port. I didn’t want it. I didn’t want to be sick anymore. And I didn’t know what else to do, so I prayed. And in desperation I prayed, lord, if this is your will, please just bring me peace about it. 

And I know now that this is exactly the miracle I had been praying for during those weeks. If you had told me almost a year ago that the randomly assigned IR nurse who I interacted with for no less than 1 hour would later be one of my best friends and personal hype squad, I never would have believed you. I couldn’t have predicted we’d be growing in faith together. But here we are, doing the damn thing. 

God didn’t mean for any of us to do it alone. He didn’t mean for us to struggle in silence or to filter our lives and only give the best versions of ourselves. 

We all say “god gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers” and honestly I’ve always taken issue with the phrase. Because I’m NOT that girl. I’m not strong. I’m not even a soldier! 

Then last night as we learned about Job and how he was stripped to nothing, publicly acknowledged his grief, and then WORSHIPPED- I realized it. Maybe god doesn’t give his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Maybe he gives them to those who will survive them (messily, raw, and real) and STILL continue to point to Him. 

So yes, looking back, on the day of port placement, I felt that God hadn’t listened. He hadn’t answered my bold prayers. I wasn’t healed. My physical health was a mess. And I didn’t even feel that the Hail Mary prayer was answer: I didn’t feel any peace at all over my decision. And even though it hurt, I continued to praise Him. I praised Him for the things I could see but also for the things I never would.

But in the palpable, faith filled room last night, I just knew it. This is the miracle. This is the answer to all those prayers that I thought had gone unnoticed.

This freeze frame moment in a 93 year old historic church - if it’s not an example of Gods redemptive grace, I don’t know what  is. If I could bottle up the feeling and revisit it as needed, I would. So I’m writing it here, for myself, to cement it in my memory. Hopefully forever. 

“Even when I can’t see it you’re working. Even when I don’t feel it you’re working. You are way maker, miracle worker, promise keeper, light in the darkness”

Answers


Relieved. Overwhelmed. Hopeful. Thankful. Optimistic. Cautious. Scared. Vindicated. Angry. Shocked. Apprehensive. Anxious. Joyful. 

These are just a few of the things running through my head today after an intense week of testing. 

At the end of the day, my heart is just full of so much praise because I got exactly what I prayed all week for - ANSWERS. 

Tuesday as I waited for my lumbar puncture I prayed a weird prayer - one for abnormal test results That prayer wasn’t answered that day, but it was two days later after my fifth MRI.

Turns out I should probably buy a lottery ticket because I officially have a confirmed spontaneous CSF leak. Statistically, only 5 in 100,000 people will experience this.

This week turned intense fast after my Lumbar puncture on Tuesday - my headache and nausea worsened dramatically and by Thursday I could hardly see straight. Then came the MRI results - a leak, plain as day, in a completely different spot than the LP - meaning it’s been there this whole.damn.time.

Thankfully, my ED coworkers treated me promptly and compassionately and I was able to get an emergent, unplanned blood patch in IR Thursday evening. It’s no exaggeration when I say I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy - it was by far the hardest, most painful thing I’ve ever been asked to endure. It’s day 4 and I’m just beginning to walk more normally again

So the good news? We have an answer, and (hopefully) a FIX. The bad news? The fix requires at least one more intense blood patch - and possibly others down the line. The treatment plan has not yet been fully laid out and I’ll be at the mercy of the one physician in Phoenix who treats spontaneous leaks

Thank you - to those who have prayed with me. To those who have cried out to the Lord on my behalf. To those who have had the patience to read through my lengthy updates. To those who have sat with me in the ER, at appointments, in waiting rooms, at home on the couch, and during endless procedures. Thank you to those who continued to help me push for answers when I wanted so badly to give up. Thank you to those who believed and validated me every time I insisted that something was wrong. & Thank you to my ED family who has been beyond gracious, supportive, and understanding while I have straddled the line between patient and employee.

The road ahead scares me as I know it will be anything but easy, but I’m so glad to even HAVE a road and a clear direction to move in.

Looks like I have one extra thing to be thankful for this Thanksgiving.

“I gotta feeling the darkness won’t last very long…
so we will sing, we will dance,

till the earth echoes the heavens,

sing His praise till we see the other side”